Anyways, I dont think youre problem (its not really a problem) is rare at all. It is due to the media that we are compelled and forced into wanting sex at a early age or that being a virgin isnt cool at all. I think youre at a point in your life right now that you happen to want more in life (because you are buying a home, right?) which usually involves being more engage with others, meaning dating, sex, having more friends, settling a little. Its normal.

It honestly doesnt do you any good to lie about being a virgin, I dont think its fair at all to be asked such a question. I mean, it doesnt make you feel good about yourself to lie, so if youre asked the question (which shouldnt be ANYBODYs business) just tell them its personal.

You seem intelligent, and honey, its an attractive character to have. Go out more, meet new people and talk to more ladies. You seem like a serious person, so let your guards down a little, and relax. Sex shouldnt be want you want, but rather a healthy relationship with someone.

Drinking doesnt help anything. You can seek therapy, but I think youre fine to work this through by yourself. The thing I say is No One Knows You Better Than Yourself. So dont punish yourself for something you can change. Good Luck. If you need more help, you can email me if you like. Its.